Foreplay Tips Before Sex

Understand that she needs a longer time to reach her climax. This is one thing you should remember. A good foreplay heats things up and shorten the time spent for her to reach her climax. How would you feel if your partner climaxes before you do, turn over and fall asleep, leaving you hot and hard? Who could resist such great and satisfying sex?

Foreplay, also known as the "Game Before The Game". Using everything you have. Your fingers, your toes, your mouth, your hair... In some cases even your warm breath can be part of the fun.

Through my experience, the best way to start with a foreplay is by giving a massage. You can consider talking dirty during the massage. You might want to describe how she is working late lonely in her workplace, how you appear naked by her side, how you going to massage her and how you going to bend her over the photocopying machine or her boss's work desk. Detailed descriptions would work better than just "telling a story".

With your partner lying down with her back facing you, you can start with the shoulders. Give her a good massage to relax her muscles. In the midst of the massage, let your fingers "walk' lightly around her body especially those sensitive areas. Then go back to the strong massage again. Then, use your warm mouth to suck and bite and tease their erogenous zones and lick them behind the ears or bite the top of their shoulders - literally devour them with your mouth. You might also want to prepare a cup of warm water to gurgle before doing this.

There are certain zones on her body that are more stimulating than others. After the massage, use soft smooth strokes to touch and stimulate your partner. Roll your finger tips across their nipples and behind their ears as you kiss them and tease them with your tongue. Use your legs and run it up and down her thighs. When your partner gets impatient and aggressive during the foreplay it means you are doing something right.

Foreplay is as much of an art form as it is a "necessity". Foreplay can include, toys, tools, ties and even food. For beginners, I would recommend toys. Don't be shy. Ask the sales person which toys are their best sellers and good for beginners. You wouldn't want to buy something too strong or huge for a start.

The rules of foreplay are standard worldwide and there is only one: Take care of your partner first. Good foreplay is when one guy/girl gets great pleasure out of pleasing his/her lover. As the saying goes: Ladies first. Have a great sex.